You know who your true friends are.

True friends won't abandon you when you have bad days. They won't ignore you or unfriend you when you have days where you're quiet or not feeling up to being in a group of people. They will still make time to reach out even if you feel distant or wish to be alone. They will still talk to you even if they know you're not very good at socialising.

Tired of trying to make an effort in talking to people and being cast aside and unfriended because of reasons that are unknown to me. I'm aware I'm not very good at socialising or social stuff in general, but I hope this doesn't stop anyone from wanting to be friends.

Again, you know who your true friends are.

Quote of the day: Be proud of your accomplishments regardless of how big or small it is a step in the right direction towards better things ahead.

Some days I miss working on this site. I hold a lot of great memories of working with GoodnightPanda, crushing some insane bugs, completely changing the infrastructure, and building new features.

I remember one was introducing the caching subsystem. When the site only had like 50 accounts in it, the performance absolutely TANKED to where it would take sometimes 2 whole minutes to load your main timeline. Turns out the bottleneck was in the friends system itself, making several hundreds of queries to the database to get the latest friendship statuses from each profile.

I told Panda my plan to introduce Redis to cache a ton of the work being done every page request and he just told me to go for it. Couple days and several hundred lines of code later, timelines and pages were suddenly loading within milliseconds. We all waited for when the site would slow to a crawl again and.. it never happened. It’s still running on the same caching system I built all those years ago, and running smoooooooorh as glass as far as I can see.

I’ve got a few more stories like this one of anyone’s interested.

Until next time, cheers 🍻

Quote of the night: stay away from negativity and negative people you deserve better and good things in life don't let anyone dictate what you can and can't accomplish in life.

Reminder of the day: you can't fix what everybody is going through on a everyday basis but if there is one thing you can do it stick by them and listen find a way to be a good friend to them.

Quote of the day: be proud of the accomplishments you have made even if it's the big ones don't forget the small ones to they were stepping stones to where you are now.

Reminder of the day: the little things you do will spark something special about you for me I like making these quotes,to not only share positivity and wisdom but just to make it clear you are never alone in whatever you are going through we all have our own obstacles to face know that you are not facing them by yourself you have people in your life who care about you and will listen.

Quote of the day: Here's to a good opportunities and good things your way and this month will go smoothly do your best to accomplish your goals and objectives everything will go your way just do it at your own pace.

equal parts. the biggest waste of money ive ever done and the best investment. i still love listening to this song even though i dont stream or play the games mentioned anymore. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqQdEGCOWAc

Reminder of the day: You may not be able to fix everything in people's lives or yours, but know you can always listen and just be understanding we all have our own obstacles that we face everyday know that you will be okay and things will resolve themselves out.